This has been going on for a long time.
Back in the Reagan Era the US was miles ahead of the Soviet Union’s military by any metric. So the Right came up with a new metric, “throw weight.” The Soviets had inferior missile technology, so they had to build bigger weapons to carry the same size warhead. The War Party would go to Congress and the public and show how much bigger the Soviet missiles were and claim that it proved how weak the West was and why we had to spend more.
It was like saying a musket from 1776 was better than a M-16 because it fired a larger bullet.
Go out and volunteer to help someone else.
Seeing another person’s problems is a sure way to make your own problems seem smaller.