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  • OTINOKTYAH@feddit.orgtoShowerthoughts@lemmy.world[Deleted]
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    10 days ago

    Oh No, someone is not my opinion, i start to doubt everything He/she says and put something in his/her mouth that never was said.

    Nice one.

    So to clear things:

    • i never doubt about anything something about their development (that only you brought Up)
    • i never said they should stuck in a stroller (again you brought that up)
    • i never said, in that in Dangerous terrain it’s wrong (but you should probably Not Walk into Dangerous terrain with a toddler)
    • i never said you “only” watch them. You don’t “watch” a toddler. You are participating with almost very step with vom/her.
    • no, i don’t say someone here to never use the leash. If you are looking for parenting advices only at Lemmy , you should probably seek Help.

    I said

    • i’m a parent. If you believe me or not, i don’t care.
    • i never used my “i’m a parent card”, in fact you brought it up and i told in small Side sentence that i’m also one
    • i’m Not a bad parent, not because i say i dislike leashes.
    • yes, i dislike leashes
    • yes, because i think it’s not benefiting any Security (exceptions exists of course, Dangerous terrain and autistic children f.e.)
    • yes, putting someone on a leash is something you don’t do. You don’t put mentaly handicapped people or dementia patients on a leash. It’s dehumanising, even If the people don’t understand that.
    • yes you are making your children to “pets” through that, because to your suprise, a social norm of leashes make this. (Owner/Pet)

    So, please stop accusing me things i’ve never written and never did and leash your children.




  • OTINOKTYAH@feddit.orgtoShowerthoughts@lemmy.world[Deleted]
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    10 days ago

    Again, it’s humiliating for children. Children are Not animals, and as parent it’s you fucking job to Look after your offspring. A leash will not Help you, when you are on the phone and the children runs into danger.

    Also i know that they are fast. I have two of them, one of them running like hell ;)



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    10 days ago

    Children aren’t pets.

    Pets aren’t children

    Putting someone to a leash is degrading for humans. I know that there are exceptions, but If you are putting children on a leash, you are mostly seen as a bad parent and probably you are. Also: dogs are on a leash mostly for safety reasons for others.