If I understand correctly, all three are possible, but I don’t use it myself and only know these instructions in German. Here are the most important paragraphs (automatically) translated:

"Friendica allows you to make various settings. You therefore have the choice of whether and how you want to use the connection to Bluesky.

Even if the connection to Bluesky has been established and your contacts have been imported, this does not mean that all your Fediverse posts are automatically visible on Bluesky.

Friendica gives you the freedom to decide how deeply you want to integrate with Bluesky.

[ 1 ] ‘Publish to Bluesky by default’ - if this option is activated, every post will also be visible on Bluesky

[ 2 ] ‘Import the remote timeline’ - if this option is activated, all posts from the accounts you follow will be imported.

[ 3 ] ‘Complete the threads’ - if this option is activated, all comments on your posts and those of your contacts will be completed with additional comments.

Your connection to Bluesky is now established. Your timeline will now be filled with posts from the Fediverse and Bluesky.

You can now interact with your Bluesky contacts. For example, by entering a comment without opening the Bluesky app or browser window."

Since the text is from 2020, some information is no longer up to date: The connections to Twitter and Facebook are closed, instead there are now connectors to Tumblr and Bluesky

I’m not a big fan of Mastodon either (started with it, but now prefer Friendica and Lemmy), for me personally it’s not a good fit. But hashtags on Mastodon are at least a way to follow not just individual users but also topics (and this only works if they are hashtagged). With Friendica, Sharkey and others, you can define your own individual channels / antennas for certain topics, so hashtags and individual accounts are not so important. And for Lemmy, they’re not important at all. But as a Lemmy user, I can still put up with it when I see a hashtag (that gives others an advantage). What’s so bad about seeing it?

Every Fediverse content looks a little different, depending on which access software or app you use to view it. It seems that there are also Lemmy apps that display hashtags a little too exaggerated, while in others and in the web-gui it is ok. (in an earlier version of the guide it also said that you shouldn’t use hashtags/tags esp. in the headline because it didn’t work properly back then).

But maybe I should include a note in the instructions that hashtags should be used sparingly or placed at the end?

From here (webapp) it looks quite ok. You seem to be using an app that exaggerates hashtags a bit too much. (which app is it?)

It may be that not all instances are federating in both directions yet. You can send something from Gotosocial to one of the test communities (e.g. !test@feddit.org , but lemmy.world may also have one) if you want to test it further.

To be more precise: At the moment only in one direction (Lemmy > Friendica) all images are displayed. This is how it looks in Friendica: https://anonsys.net/display/bf69967c-7067-83af-dbbc-0fd212873067

You might be able to speed it up a bit by copying the link of your GoToSocial post in Lemmy into the search box.

It has successfully reached Lemmy ! 🚀

If you want to host your own instance, there are also managed hosting offers for Friendica, e.g. by Weingärtner-IT (from 4€/month) or Spacehost (20€).

To get to know Friendica, however, I would recommend simply creating an account and testing it out, first.

In my experience, I can’t see any difference in speed between different launchers. But just try it out, install a few and then delete the ones you don’t like.

The interface design is based on how iOS works, for example to move an icon on your phone long press one of the icons and wait till they all go wiggling and then drag the icon to where you want to have it.

In case you don’t like the interface, you can also simply install a different launcher and set it as the default start app. There really is a lot to choose from: https://android.izzysoft.de/applists/category/named/tools_launcher?lang=en

(part 2: 2000-2024):

• 2000 Disturbed Down with the Sickness
• 2000 Linkin Park One step closer
• 2000 Papa Roach Last Resort
• 2000 The Hives Hate to Say I Told You So
• 2001 Clawfinger Nothing going on
• 2001 James Getting Away With it (All Messed Up)
• 2001 Jimmy Eat World Bleed American
• 2001 P.O.D. Youth of the Nation
• 2001 R.E.M. Imitation of live
• 2001 Subway to Sally Veitstanz
• 2001 System of a Down Chop Suey!
• 2001 System Of A Down Toxicity
• 2002 In Flames Cloud Connected
• 2002 Manowar Warriors of the World United
• 2002 Panteón Rococó La carencia
• 2002 Queens of a Stone Age No one knows
• 2002 Red Hot Chili Peppers Can‘t stop
• 2002 The Coral Dreaming of You
• 2003 Billy Talent This is how it goes
• 2003 Crüxshadows Winter born o. Deception
• 2003 Die Ärzte unrockbar
• 2003 Gloria Estefan Wrapped
• 2003 No Doubt It‘s my life
• 2003 Placebo The bitter end
• 2003 Schiller & Heppner I feel you
• 2003 Tanzwut Erdbeerrot
• 2003 The caesars Jerk it out
• 2003 Type O Negative I don‘t wanna be me
• 2004 Beatsteaks Hand in Hand
• 2004 Green Day Holiday
• 2004 Panteón Rococó La Ciudad de la Esperanza
• 2004 Rise Against Life less frightened
• 2004 Slipknot Duality
• 2004 Sportfreunde Stiller Ich, Roque
• 2005 Depeche Mode precious
• 2005 Disturbed Stricken
• 2005 Limp Bizkit Take a Look Around
• 2005 Moby Lift me up
• 2005 nine inch nails The hand that feeds evil
• 2005 Tocotronic Aber hier leben, nein danke
• 2005 VNV Nation Chrome
• 2005 Weezer Beverly Hills
• 2005 Wir sind Helden Nur ein Wort
• 2006 AFI Miss Murder
• 2006 Amy Winehouse Back To Black
• 2006 Billy Talent Fallen Leaves
• 2006 Breaking Benjamin The Diary of Jane
• 2006 Korpiklaani  Beer, Beer
• 2006 Muse Supermassive Black Hole
• 2006 Papa Roach I Devise My Own Demise
• 2006 Placebo Meds
• 2006 Wolfmother Mother
• 2007 Biffy Clyro Who‘s got a Match
• 2007 Editors Racing Rats
• 2007 Foo Fighters The Pretender
• 2007 Linkin Park Bleed it out
• 2007 My Chemical Romance Welcome to the Black Parade
• 2007 Nightwish Bye Bye Beautiful
• 2007 Rihanna Umbrella
• 2007 Turbostaat Harm Rochel
• 2008 Anne Clark Boy Racing
• 2008 Coldplay Viva la vida
• 2008 LACRIMAS PROFUNDERE A Pearl
• 2008 MGMT Kids
• 2008 Shinedown Diamond Eyes
• 2008 The Cranberries Salvation
• 2009 Dinosaur jr. Plans
• 2009 Green Day Know your Enemy
• 2009 Kasabian Underdog
• 2009 KONTRUST bomba
• 2009 Mando Diao Dance With Somebody
• 2010 Deftones Rocket Skates
• 2010 Deine Lakaien Gone
• 2010 Eisenfunk Pong
• 2010 gogol bordello Immigraniada (We Comin’ Rougher)
• 2010 GRAVE DIGGER Highland Farewell
• 2010 Interpol Barricade
• 2010 siberian standoff viza trans
• 2010 VIZA trans-siberian standoff
• 2011 ALESTORM Shipwrecked
• 2011 Alter Bridge Isolation
• 2011 Lykke Li I follow rivers
• 2011 Red Hot Chili Peppers The Adventures Of Rain Dance Maggie
• 2011 Rise Against Satellite
• 2012 ATROCITY Danse Macabre / The Great Commandment
• 2012 IN THIS MOMENT Whore
• 2012 Kraftclub Ich will nicht nach Berlin
• 2012 Slash & Myles Kennedy Anastasia
• 2013 Airbourne Back In The Game
• 2013 Avenged Sevenfold Hail To The King
• 2013 Chvrches the mother we share
• 2013 Jaune Toujours All Eyes
• 2013 lebanon hanover gallowdance
• 2013 New Model Army Between Dog and Wolf
• 2013 Tocotronic Wie wir leben wollen
• 2013 Vance Joy Riptide
• 2014 Against me! Black me out
• 2014 Broilers Ist da jemand
• 2014 Ja Panik Libertatia
• 2014 KONTRUST Just Propaganda
• 2014 Lost Frequencies Are you with me
• 2014 Mastodon High Road
• 2014 Weezer Back to the Shack
• 2015 Adam Angst Professoren
• 2015 Big Thief Masterpiece
• 2015 Coldplay Adventure of a lifetime
• 2015 Disturbed The Vengeful One
• 2015 Gloryhammer Universe on fire
• 2015 Nightwish Endless Forms most beautiful
• 2016 BATTLE BEAST King For A Day
• 2016 Billy Talent Louder than the DJ
• 2016 Lebanon Hanover Babes of the 80s
• 2016 Mono Inc. Feat. Tilo Wolff, Joachim Witt & Chris Harms Children of the Dark
• 2016 Ofenbach Be mine
• 2016 Pixies All I Think About Now
• 2016 Pixies Classic Masher
• 2017 Bloodbound Stand And Fight
• 2017 Body Count No lives matter
• 2017 Portugal the man Feel it still
• 2018 annenmaykantereit ich geh heut nicht mehr tanzen
• 2018 Heppner & Witt Was bleibt?
• 2018 Peter Heppner …und ich tanz
• 2018 TEMPERANCE The Last Hope In A World Of Hopes
• 2018 Tocotronic Electric Guitar
• 2018 VNV Nation When is future
• 2019 Corroded Breathing
• 2019 David Hasselhoff Head on
• 2019 LAHMIA Elegy For A Dying Sun
• 2019 Skunk Anansie What you do for love
• 2019 The Specials 10 Commantments
• 2019 Volbeat Volbeat - Die To Live
• 2020 Die Ärzte morgens pauken
• 2020 Pearl Jam Dance Of The Clairvoyants
• 2020 The Levellers The Men who would be king
• 2020 VILLAGERS OF IOANNINA CITY For The Innocent
• 2021 Deine Lakaien Because The Night
• 2021 Deine Lakaien Black Hole Sun
• 2021 Deine Lakaien Losing my religion
• 2021 Fury in the Slaughterhouse 1995
• 2022 Billy Talent Reckless Paradise
• 2022 Die Ärzte Dunkel
• 2022 Placebo Surrounded By Spies
• 2022 Tocotronic Jugend ohne Gott gegen Faschismus
• 2022 Tocotronic Nie wieder Krieg
• 2023 Futzle Haul on the Jib: A Recursive Sea Shanty
• 2023 Subway to Sally feat. Joachim Witt Goldener Reiter
• 2024 Bon Jovi Living Proof
• 2024 Garbage Better not lie to me
• 2024 Jamezytee Shoot away pain
• 2024 Pearl Jam Running
• 2024 Sum 41 Waiting on a twist of fate
• 2024 Moby ft. Benjamin Zephaniah Where is your pride?

And here is my current list (part 1: 1956-1999):

• 1956 Bill Haley & His Comets Rip it up
• 1956 Dean Martin Memories Are Made of this
• 1957 Buddy Holly Peggy Sue
• 1957 Buddy Knox Party Doll
• 1957 Elvis Presley Jailhouse Rock
• 1957 Johnny Cash I walk the line
• 1957 The Tokens The banana boat song
• 1958 Buddy Holly That’ll Be The Day
• 1959 Eddie Cochran C’mon Everybody
• 1960 Johnny & The Hurricanes Beatnik Fly
• 1961 Chubby Checker Let’s twist again
• 1962 Little Eva The Locomotion
• 1963 Beach Boys Surfin’ USA
• 1964 The Kinks You Really Got Me
• 1965 The Spencer Davis Group Keep On Running
• 1966 Rolling Stones Paint it black
• 1966 The Spencer Davis Group Keep On Running
• 1966 Velvet Underground Run Run Run
• 1967 Jimi Hendrix Purple Haze
• 1967 The Doors Break on through (the other side)
• 1967 The Doors People Are Strange
• 1968 Canned Heat On The Road Again_1968
• 1968 Crazy World of Arthur Brown Fire
• 1968 Steppenwolf Born To Be Wild
• 1968 The Dubliners Dirty Old Town
• 1969 Creedence Clearwater Revival Fortunate Son_1969
• 1969 Led Zeppelin Whole lotta love
• 1970 Black Sabbath Paranoid
• 1970 Deep Purple Child in Time
• 1971 Bröselmaschine Schmetterling
• 1971 Led Zeppelin Stairway to Heaven
• 1971 The Sensational Alex Harvey Band Midnight Moses
• 1971 Ton Steine Scherben Macht kaputt was Euch kaputt macht
• 1971 UFO Price Kajuku
• 1971 Uriah Heep July Morning
• 1972 Aphrodite’s Child The Four Horsemen
• 1972 R.E.O Speedwagon Golden Country
• 1972 Witthüser & Westrupp Der Rat der Motten
• 1973 10cc Rubber Bullets_
• 1973 Golden Earring Radar Love
• 1973 ZZ Top La Grange
• 1974 Queen Now I’m here
• 1974 Supertramp School
• 1974 UFO Doctor Doctor
• 1975 Bruce Springsteen Thunder Road
• 1975 Hoelderlin Schwebebahn
• 1975 Led Zeppelin Kashmir
• 1975 Queen Bohemian Rhapsody
• 1975 Tina Turner Whole Lotta Love
• 1976 Alan Parsons Project The Raven
• 1976 David Bowie Station to Station
• 1976 Ramones Blitzkrieg Bop
• 1977 Iggy Pop The Passenger
• 1977 Ram Jam Black Betty
• 1977 Supermaxx Lovemachine
• 1977 The Clash White Riot
• 1978 Black Sabbath Hard Road
• 1978 Bonny Tyler It’s a heardache
• 1978 Buzzcocks Ever Fallen In Love…
• 1978 Judas Priest Exciter
• 1978 Mother’s Finest Baby love
• 1978 The Undertones Teenage Kicks
• 1979 Hermann Brood Saturday Night
• 1979 Madness One step beyond
• 1979 The B-52s Planet Claire
• 1979 The Clash London Calling
• 1979 The Ruts Jah War
• 1979 The Specials A message to you Rudy
• 1980 Bruce Springsteen The River
• 1980 Fehlfarben Paul ist tot
• 1980 Madness Baggy Trousers
• 1980 Motörhead The Ace of Spades
• 1980 The Cure A Forest
• 1980 The Cure Boys Don’t Cry
• 1981 Dead Kennedys Nazi punks fuck off
• 1981 Kim Wilde Cambodia
• 1981 Kraftwerk Computerwelt
• 1981 Misfits London Dungeon
• 1981 Soft Cell Tainted love
• 1981 The Cure Other Voices
• 1982 Eurythmics Sweet Dreams
• 1982 Iron Maiden The Number Of The Beast
• 1982 Kate Bush Wuthering Heights
• 1982 The Alan Parsons Project Eye In The Sky
• 1982 Toy Dolls Nellie the Elephant
• 1982 Ultravox Hymn
• 1983 Anne Clark Sleeper in Metropolis
• 1983 Canalterror Multis
• 1983 New Order Blue Monday
• 1983 Peter Tosh Johnny B Goode
• 1983 ZZ Top Sharp Dressed Man
• 1984 Anne Clark Our Darkness
• 1984 Metallica Fade to Black
• 1984 Modern Talking You’re my Heart, you’re my soul
• 1984 The Cramps Human Fly
• 1984 Warlock Burning the witches
• 1985 a-ha Take on Me
• 1985 EA80 Nimmer geh beiseit
• 1985 Faith No More We care a lot
• 1985 Kate Bush Running up that Hill
• 1985 Warlock Hellbound
• 1986 Bollock Brothers Faith Healer
• 1986 Metallica Master of Puppets
• 1987 Beastie Boys No Sleep 'Til Brooklyn
• 1987 Depeche Mode never let me down again
• 1987 Die Goldenen Zitronen Für immer Punk
• 1987 Rainbirds Blueprint
• 1987 Suzanne Vega Tom’s Diner
• 1987 The Nits In The Dutch Mountains
• 1988 Danzig Mother
• 1988 Fugazi Waiting Room
• 1988 Guns N’ R Paradise City
• 1988 Kirlian Camera Eclipse
• 1988 Melissa Etheridge Like The Way I Do
• 1988 Mudhoney Touch Me I’m Sick
• 1988 Pixies Where is my mind
• 1988 Suicidal Tendencies How Will I Laugh Tomorrow When I Can’t Even Smile Today
• 1988 Tanita Tikaram Twist in my Sobriety
• 1988 The Godfathers Cause I Said So
• 1989 Alice Cooper Poison
• 1989 Loveslug Free Fire Zone
• 1989 Mark Foggo Skasters Lucky to be alive
• 1989 New Model Army Green and Grey
• 1989 New Model Army Vagabounds
• 1989 Pixies Debaser
• 1989 Pixies Monkey gone to heaven
• 1989 Rausch Suicide is alright
• 1990 Bad Religion 21st Century Digital Boy
• 1990 Die Toten Hosen All die ganzen Jahre
• 1990 Faith No More Fallen to pieces
• 1990 Fugazi Blueprint
• 1990 Héroes Del Silencio Entre Dos Tierras
• 1990 Mucky Pup Hippies hate Water
• 1990 New Model Army Get me out
• 1990 Slayer Skeletons of Society
• 1990 Technotronic Pump up the jam
• 1991 Deine Lakaien Dark Star
• 1991 EMF Unbelievable
• 1991 Eternal Afflict San Diego
• 1991 Levellers One way
• 1991 Manic Street Preachers Stay Beautiful
• 1991 Metallica Enter Sandman
• 1991 Metallica The Unforgiven
• 1991 Metallica Wherever I may roam
• 1991 Nirvana Smells like teen spirit
• 1991 Nirvana Territorial Pissings
• 1991 Paradise Lost Eternal
• 1991 Pearl Jam Alive
• 1991 Pearl Jam Black
• 1991 Pennywise Bro Hymn
• 1991 rage against the machine killing in the name
• 1991 Red Hot Chili Peppers Under the Bridge
• 1991 Red Hot Chili Peppers Give it way
• 1991 Shock Therapy Hate Is A 4-Letter Word
• 1991 Temple Of The Dog Hunger Strike
• 1991 the eternal afflict san diego
• 1992 Alice in Chains Would?
• 1992 Bad Religion Generator
• 1992 Biohazard Punishment
• 1992 Body Count Body Count’s In The House
• 1992 Danzig Dirty Black Summer
• 1992 Helmet Unsung
• 1992 NOFX Kill All The White Man
• 1992 Pro Pain Pound for pound
• 1992 Sisters of Mercy Temple of Love
• 1992 Snap! Rhythm is a dancer
• 1992 White Zombie Thunder Kiss 65
• 1992 Wolfsheim The Sparrows And The Nightingales
• 1993 Die Krupps To the hilt
• 1993 Dr. Alban Sing Halleluja
• 1993 Jamiroquai Too young to die
• 1993 Madness Night boat to Cairo
• 1993 Pearl Jam State Of Love And Trust
• 1993 Project Pitchfork Souls
• 1993 Radiohead Creep
• 1993 Slime Schweineherbst
• 1993 Smashing Pumpkins Disarm
• 1993 Smokin Suckaz Wit Logic Mutha Made 'Em
• 1993 Type O Negative Black No. 1
• 1993 Waterboys Glastonbury Song
• 1994 Beastie Boys Sabotage
• 1994 Bush Little things
• 1994 Downset. Anger
• 1994 Green Day Basket Case
• 1994 nine inch nails Closer
• 1994 Rednex Cotton Eye Joe
• 1994 Stiltskin Inside
• 1994 Stone Temple Pilots Vasoline
• 1994 The Cranberries Zombie
• 1994 The Offspring Come out and play
• 1994 Therapy? Nowhere
• 1995 Blumfeld Verstärker
• 1995 Clawfinger Do what I say
• 1995 Crematory Tears of time
• 1995 Cumbersome Seven Mary Three
• 1995 Deine Lakaien Dark Star (Acoustic)
• 1995 Die Ärzte schunder song
• 1995 Dog Eat Dog Who’s the King
• 1995 Faithless Insomnia
• 1995 Fury in the Slaughterhouse Time to Wonder
• 1995 H-Blockx Little Girl
• 1995 Ignite You
• 1995 Life of Agony Let’s Pretend
• 1995 No Doubt Just a girl
• 1995 Phantoms of future Sun
• 1995 Project Pitchfork Requiem
• 1995 Rancid Time Bomb
• 1995 Silke Bischoff On the other Side
• 1995 Skunk Anansie Weak
• 1995 Smashing Pumpkins Bullet with Butterfly Wings
• 1995 Tocotronic Drüben auf dem Hügel
• 1996 Bloodhound Gang Fire Water Burn
• 1996 Blur Song 2
• 1996 Die Sterne Was hat Dich bloß so ruiniert
• 1996 Fettes Brot Silberfische in meinem Bett
• 1996 Gala Freed from Desire
• 1996 Jamiroquai Cosmic Girl
• 1996 Lacrimosa Ich bin der brennende Komet
• 1996 Nada Surf Popular
• 1996 Placebo Nancy Boy
• 1996 Skunk Anansie Twisted
• 1996 Social Distortion Don‘t drag me down
• 1996 The Prodigy Firestarter
• 1996 The Sorrows Let the live live
• 1996 Uncle Ho Deflowers Lunch Gurl
• 1997 Anouk Nobody’s Wife
• 1997 Cake I will survive (Cover)
• 1997 Chumbawamba Tubthumping
• 1997 Deftones My own summer
• 1997 Depeche Mode It’s No Good
• 1997 Molotov Gimme tha Power
• 1997 Rammstein Engel
• 1997 The Inchtabokatables Mountain Man
• 1997 The Verve Bitter Sweet Symphony
• 1997 Tocotronic Alles Was Ich Will, Ist Nichts Mit Euch Zu Tun Haben
• 1998 Falco Out Of The Dark
• 1998 Fatboy Slim Praise you
• 1998 Guano Apes Lord of the Boards
• 1998 Heppner & Witt Die Flut
• 1998 Liquido Narcotic
• 1998 Manu Chao Clandestino
• 1998 Mark Foggo Skasters Mama don‘t like
• 1998 monster magnet space lord
• 1998 New Noise Refused
• 1998 Placebo Every you every me
• 1998 The Offspring Pretty Fly (For A White Guy)
• 1999 Apoptygma Berzerk Eclipse
• 1999 Bush The chemicals between us
• 1999 Deine Lakaien Return
• 1999 Godsmack Keep away
• 1999 In Extremo Spielmannsfluch
• 1999 Live The_dolphin_s_cry
• 1999 Red Hot Chili Peppers Otherside
• 1999 Staind Mudshovel …