But how would you know when something is funny then? (canned laughter)

In Spain nobody uses SMS since 2010’s (or iMessage), IM’s go mostly on WhatsApp and lately some Telegram

Changing the controller order with the game running worked for me. It was setting the deck built-in controller as “player 1” by default.

Finding sources for some things can be tricky and is quite a case by case situation. If you aren’t sailing much lately take a look at the megathread if you haven’t already for updated resources and tips.