Generally when sharpening a tooth that’s like 8 TPI (standard ripping saw) sharpening should need less than 8 strokes for each tooth.
Also try soaking your file in vinegar overnight, they might be a lot better in the morning. It’s to do with chemical sharpening, the vinegar dissolves some metal around the files teeth and they get a bit sharper.
As a diy-er Always found it funny how YouTubers always have the most pristine tools while professionals will have the dingiest, sketchiest tools. Granted, YouTubers are representing their craft but the two (professional and YouTuber) are very distinct from each other.
It’s ok to have tools that look like they’ve gone through hell and back, because that’s the only way you know they have.