• Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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    30 days ago

    Relationships are like bank accounts. If there is an imbalance there is going to hard feelings from one side. Accepting a bad deal leads to someone being a victim or worst forcing others to suffer by choices they didn’t make. It’s not narcissistic to leave a cheating/inattentive partner.

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      30 days ago

      It’s not narcissistic to leave a cheating/inattentive partner.

      No, it’s not.

      Relationships are like bank accounts… Accepting a bad deal…

      But that is.

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        29 days ago

        Not seeing a difference. Relationships are give and take. Keep in mind equal value can mean anything to anybody. There is no look at my chart and this applies to everyone. Example: If a parent is not feeding, proving finances, good company, and is not even good for emotional support why bother? All they are doing is sandbagging you. Proving nothing of value is not balancing the books especially if your life is better without them.